The 4 Types of Haters

Date: 2010-01-01 | Author: Self-Evolution

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haters, success, self, development, lee, ridenour

   We were treated with all the haters. "Haters" as we know, they are success-haters: who is sent back to what you have done or are trying to accomplish. It is clear after a point, all the haters are not created equal. Different haters hate on you differently, for different reasons and therefore should be treated differently. Before you can learn to deal with attacks from haters, you need to understand who you are really dealing with (yes, there really different types of haters ... haters are not all created equal).

   To make things simple, haters can generally be classified based on two factors:

   a) How strong is your desire to harm you and put a halt to its success or extinguish the flame of his ambition.

   b) How effective their tactics and tricks are actually achieve its purpose (which may include deter you, you stop, undermining their confidence and making you feel guilty for having success).

   In other words, how they want to stop you and how effective are they in fact do so.

   The illustration shows the different positioning of haters in this spectrum. See it at:

   http://www.howhatershelp.com/quadrant.JPG

   Quadrant I - Friend - Here at the bottom left of the spectrum, you find your real friends and real support, his companions in the struggle to achieve what you want out of life. Anyone that you associate regularly (from a business or social position) must clearly lie in this quadrant. These people have no desire to harm you on your path to success (a factor), and should never have to demonstrate their ability (factor b).

   Quadrant II - incompetent Hater - Here in the upper left corner, you find haters at the bottom of the intelligence scale. Generally, these are the individuals who had not completed their GED, learn new skills to avoid at all costs (to maintain their "cool") and love to talk smack to you. Usually they can only collect a very few insults, which should have little deterrent effect on you, as they tend to be as comically primitive. These haters are the easiest to deal with reality and can provide comic relief.

   Quadrant III - Mother - Here in the bottom right now, you will find people who are near you still want to discourage you from doing what you have set to do, in the form of "traps" (as explained in Help haters). They have no desire to damage or hinder you in your path to success and only wants to save you from disappointment. As a result, they will use the techniques, tricks to stop you (which are usually disguised as something else, because we really care about them and do not want to hurt you).

   Quadrant IV - Veteran Hater - Here in the upper right corner you will find the most damaging haters, or not to be trifled with. These are the "veterans" haters who have both the will and the skills needed for effective damage on its way to success. They spent a long time "hating" the go-getting and know what works and does not work. These are the people who are "existentially tormented" (as explained in How to Help haters) and watch the success they have dedicated their lives to make people successful. Out of all the haters, they require the ability to deal with the majority. These are the haters that truly successful people have had to deal with the majority.

   Now that you understand the four main types of "haters", is a step closer to learning how to beat them. While everyone deals with haters, almost nothing was written about them - until now. How to Help haters is a book completely free for all - providing valuable insight into all things related Hater (which is much more than you might think) and, ultimately, how to get exactly what you want out of life. Download the book for free at: http://www.HowHatersHelp.com/

   I am honored to help you win haters and give them the tools necessary to get what you want out of life ... How to Help haters will provide you with everything you need.

   Lee Ridenour

   Founder & CEO

   Self Development

   http://www.SelfEvolution.net/

   Download How to Help haters - The free book:

   http://www.HowHatersHelp.com/

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